Thank you for your question
My name is ***** ***** I am so very sorry for your loss
Since your son was over 18 there was no requirement for you to be notified prior to the removal of the body
Whilst you can ask to view the body again I am sorry but there is no requirement for you to be asked to do so - although I do wonder who confirmed the identification for them.
That is a question that you are entitled to ask
There are no words that can help in this situation - but please ask if you need further details