Hi, thank you for your question. Did your wife obtain an occupation order, or any other order excluding you from the property?
Apologies for the delay. Unfortunately some non-molestation orders have a clause stating you are not to return within a certain distance of the property and are therefore similar to an occupation order and it may be that the order against you has this paragraph preventing you from returning. If the order was made without notice to you, then the court should have automatically listed it for a return date within 14 days. If they have not then you would be entitled to apply to court to vary the order using form FL403.
In relation to them accessing your paperwork, this is a breach of your privacy and they are not allowed to do this and legally you would be entitled to apply to your local county court regarding this, however, practically it may not be worthwhile.
In the circumstances it may be helpful to review your options to apply to the family court to vary the order to obtain access to the home to collect your belongings.
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