How many messages were there from you roughly?
How many without her responding?
When was the last?
That is harassment I'm afraid. There is no way around it.
However, all the police would do is give you a harassment warning
They are not going to give you a restraining order over this. They are not going to bring the matter to court if it is just 9 or so messages on Facebook.
Can I clarify anything for you?
Not really. It will just mean they can't rely on S4 harassment but that wouldn't be appropriate for harassment warnings.
I dont do family but they are not going to stop you seeing the children for this reason.
Half the country are on harassment warnings.