Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
Did you partner leave a Will?
I am so very sorry for your loss.
I am afraid that once your partner had died then the fact that he had nominated you as his next of kin ceased to have any relevance
Once that had happened then legally they had to deal with his nearest relative - his sister
It woudl only have been possible for you to deal with it if either his sister had not wanted to - or your partner had left a Will naming you as his Executor.
I am so very very sorry
Please ask if you need further details
I do not know if you are aware that the site charges more for a phone call -and I am afraid that it would not change the legal position
Sadly the legal position is that the nomination of you as Next of Kin ended on his death.
At that point the Intestacy Rules applied and the Sister became the only person entitled to deal with the funeral.
I am so very sorry
They cannot ask for any items that are in your home
Do you wish to have a phone call - I thought you did not?