Hi, thanks for your question. Your wife should have served you with her Form A and the court directions detailing the dates. You should attempt to provide her with your Form E as soon as possible and the other issues can be ewalt with and directed at the hearing. It would not be appropriate to request for the hearing to be adjourned as the court will want to look at what issues there are to make directions for further evidence.
A barrister will be helpful at the hearing to ensure things are dealt with properly but you are allowed to represent yourself if necessary.
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