Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
How long have you lived together and are there any children involved?
How much is the house worth and how much is outstanding on the mortgage?
What income do you each have?
Is he physically abusive to you?
Are you aware that the site charges more for a phone call?
How much will a one bedroom property in the same general area cost to buy?
Please confirm that you are aware that the phone call is costing you more?
and what is the cost of a one bedroom property?
I am sorry that I was unable to call you - we are all working lawyers and have court commitments
IF your husband is physically violent then you can obtain an order excluding him from the property and allowing you to live there unmolested.
You can then either sell the house if he agrees - or obtain an Order for sale within Divorce proceedings if that would be more effective.
Either way the starting point for division is 50/50 - and that includes a pension sharing order in respect of his army pension
Please ensure that you call the police the next time he is violent - or makes death threats
If you still wish to have a phone call then let me know
However starting your divorce should be your priority
Please ask if you needs further details