Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
What was the Health and Issue meant to be?
Did you have any similar problems when your son was young?
When the Sure Start worker came for the first time she said all was well - what explanation did she give for her change of mind on her second visit?
What evidence did they create for the "socialising"
Is it the sure start worker who will visit?
I read that as two visits?
Sorry - i mean on the form - what happens next - two visits and then a review?
The question is how much hassle you want to have at this stage?
Do you want it over sooner rather than later?
I utterly agree you do not need the hassle.
On the basis that it needs to be over sooner rather than later agree to the visits from the Sure Start worker who is clearly aware that it is a waste of her time - and is aiming to sign you off as soon as possible.
She will see that your son has school friends (a letter from school confirming they have no concerns might assist) and may help you find ways of being less tired when coping with a baby a 7 year old and being 39 (although if she does she is clearly in line for a prize)
It will never be removed from the record - but it will then be seen as an unnecessary intervention by an over zealous Health visitor - and yes do put a complaint in
I know this is not what you want - and if you were up for the hassle there are ways you oculd fight it - but it would still be on the record even then
Please ask if you need further details
Oh wow they look sooooooo neglected!
Be patient with Sure Start and this will soon be behind you