Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first.
Where is the biological father?
How long have she her partner and the child lived together?
Is the father's name on the Birth Certificate?
Who has told her that her Will would not stand?
Please tell her not to worry.
If she names her Partner as Testamentary Guardian in her Will then on her death her Partner will have Parental responsibility for thr child and Social Services will have no more right to remove the child from his care than they do from any parents care!
Social Services will only be involved if there is a problem
Please ask if you need further details