Hi, thank you for your question. In relation to the divorce she would be entitled to apply to withdraw the divorce application using form D11 and a statement explaining the reconciliation.
Unfortunately, a pension sharing order can only have effect when the Decree Absolute is granted. However, you should be entitled to name a beneficiary to your pension if you were to pass away. You would also be entitled to offset what was agreed from other assets without a court order.
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