Hi, thank you for your question. As a permitted occupier and not a named tenant, your husband has the legal interest in the tenancy and can make such demands. You have home rights which entitle you to occupy the property at least until divorce so legally he has the final say as to whether she stays with you or not.
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Sorry, I re-read and amended my response - apologies for the confusion - please see above