Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
Why is a Urine test being done - and how old is the child?
For clarity then this was a simplistic test?
Was your daughter Ok - did she need to go to the doctor - did they refuse to take her?
Again I am so very sorry but this is a non invasive test and couldn't have caused any distress to the child.
There is no reason why she should not have done a stick test if the child's father was happy for her to do so
I am so very sorry - I do understand how difficult it is
You were infinitely more sensible and aware and did the correct thing - it is simply that your ex and his partner did nothing wrong
Please ask if you need further details