Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
Could you explain a little more about what it is that you wish to know?
You wish to withdraw the applictaion you have before the court and need to know if you have to write to your ex's solicitor - is that right?
Sorry I am still a little confused
You wish to withdraw your enforcement application - is that correct
Right - again to be clear.
You are willing (indeed you have) cancelled the Enforcement - but you want the original Order to remain in place - is that correct?
How far had the proceedings reached and when is the next hearing?
What will your position be if your ex applies to have the existing Contact order dismissed - will you then continue with the enforcement?
Wel she can certainly apply - it does not mean that she will succeed
When did you last see the children and what contact are you meant to have
When else should you have them?
Why do you not wish to enforce the Order
(and I will ask site admin to ocntact you regarding the money issue)
Do you and the children enjoy yourselves when you are together
(there is a point in this I promise)
It is not too late for your relationship with your eldest child - of you are calm and persistent you can rebulid it.
However even if you do not force the issue with your eldest there is no reason to forgo your overnight contact with the younger child - and on that basis if nothing else I would suggest that you rethink the decision to withdraw the enforcement.
All you need to say to your daughter is that of course mummy will not go to prison if your eldest doesn't want to come - she is a big girl and can decide but the baby is little and the court decides what time little children spend with their dad and her mum has to obey the court.
You certainly should not agree to the original Order being amended.
You are required to officially notify them that you are withdrawing the enforcement application so you need to write to the solicitors saying that you have decided not to go ahead with the enforcement to allow your daughter some space but that the original Order stands and you expect to see the youngest child in accordance with the court order and the older child on Wednesdays.
I hope that this is of assistance - please ask if you need further details