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I am really worried. My husband of 30 years started an

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I am really worried. My husband of 30 years started an affair with a woman 30 years younger than me. it was discovered by my daughter. He asked her not to tell me but she could not do this and made him confront me with the truth. I was devastated that my family was to be destroyed. We have three beautiful grown up daughters. He had a series of affairs 10 years previous with women who he had met on the internet, but after much counselling we decided to keep our family together. So this latest revelation left me completely traumatised.
I decided to divorce him. This was three and a half years ago. since then he has been dodging and diving to delay the financial settlement. eventually i made the decision to issue court proceedings to bring closure to the agony.
unfortunately, due to the emotional agony i was going through I messaged his mistress on facebook with what he is now calling threats.
I am concerned what the court will make of this after all I have been through? I am really worried, cannot sleep. What is the worse case scenario?
Submitted: 14 days ago.
Category: Law
Customer: replied 14 days ago.
I am extremely worried as you can see by the time i am unable to sleep. please answer soon, i paid for this service to get an urgent reply
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Expert:  F E Smith replied 14 days ago.

Thank you for your question - can you explain what exactly you have sent on FB and and when was this?

Expert:  Clare replied 14 days ago.

My name is ***** ***** I have been a solicitor for more than 35 years.

Nothing you have posted on facebook will have any impact on the financial settlement at all - the family court will not deem it as relevant if he tries to bring it up.

However you should not make any other attempt to contact her in any way as if you did she would be able to ask the Police to deal with it as Criminal Harassment

I hope that this is of assistance - please ask if you need further details

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