Thank you for your question
My name is Clare
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
How old are the children and when did you last see them?
When did you apply for Contact and who far has the application reached?
Has your wife started divorce proceedings?
has your ex started divorce proceedings?
For clarity - there are two properties involved - who is living in the other one?
How much are the properties worth and how much is outstanding on the mortgage?
What other assets are there including pensions and what income do you each have?
Has she actually applied for an Occupation Order?
Did you not attend?