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It is purely an online service and although we are all qualified UK solicitors, we are not allowed to take instructions and therefore, although we can tell you what to do with any particular problem we are unable to arrange it for you.
Do remember that if you arrange the funeral you are responsible for paying for it so make sure that there is enough money in the estate to cover it and make sure that your nephew is willing to part with the money to pay for the funeral.
You may be the oldest surviving relative but a child of the deceased person is a closer relative than you are and more of a position to arrange a funeral and to deal with the estate.
You can actually make an application to court for pre-action disclosure of the will if he will not let you see a copy and you can ask the court to award costs against him. If there is nothing left to you in the will and what he says is correct, you may not get those costs. He may take more notice if the threat of the court application comes from a solicitor.
In circumstances like this I always suggest to relatives and executors that there is nothing to be gained by being secretive and my suggestion to the nephew, if you were asking the question, would be to let anyone see the will who wants to see it because being secretive purely raises suspicion that everything may not be as he claims.
Entering a caveat is not that difficult
and there is certainly no reason why you should pay a solicitor several hundred pounds for doing it.
Can I clarify anything for you?
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