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I am sorry to read of the above. May I ask who owns the rights to the burial plot? Usually the parish council will grant a right to someone to a burial plot either as a lease or a licence.Do you know if there is any such entitlement and if so who has the entitlement? Was it your parents?
Thank you. Did you father make a will? If so do you know who he appointed as his executors?
Thank you. As executors you both have equal rights to administer your father's burial wishes and as such, if you are in disagreement with each other, they can be no decision. If you're coexecutor has decided to concede to you then there is no reason you cannot approach the parish council again and ask them to reconsider your request. They may ask you for confirmation from the other executor as they are aware of them but they do not strictly need to.
If they accept your application then you can proceed to order the headstone. Where possible, it is ideal if executors can agree on administration otherwise major decisions can be delayed. Also major decisions, in particular, the sale of a property, requires both of your agreements together and where executors cannot agree, it can be costly to the estate because disputes have to be decided by a court.
But yes in terms of the above there is no reason that you cannot reapply now and say that your coexecutor is now in agreement or at least is willing to defer to your wishes.
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