Thank you for your reply.
When I say it bothers me, I am very aware of the "blockage" at the entrance to my vagina, and also any pressure on the abdominal area causes discomfort and feeling I need the toilet (despite having just been) and actually leaking sometimes. And the feeling the inside is very big and stretched.
Can you just briefly describe the procedures (incl. incontinence surgery) please. And did you mean to have all the procedures together or just one?