Thank you for your response, the only reason he gives is that he enjoys the two free nights he has without explaining himself. He feels he does not like to explaining himself, for example when they finish their squash tournaments on Wednesday evenings they stay at the club and have a beer with the team mates. He gets back to his just before midnight. He feels if he lived with me, he would feel its too late to be getting to mine. they sometimes have a curry after. The funny thing is he gets home and is on the phone to me before bed anyway. He went to boarding school when he was 7. He has lived alone for a long time.
He has not had many girlfriends, He lived with his university girlfriend who was bi polar. He has since had a 4 girlfriends. I think ours is the longest he has had in his thirties.
Yes I have, i have even explained that I have no objection to his evenings out. its one of the best things I like about him. He has a hobby. I explained that he is on the phone after the night out anyway. He also knows what I want from the relationship
Nothing much, other than that he will feel like he is answerable to me. He says he enjoys his own company.