Hi Dr Love
I feel that he is rejecting me as he understood he has a problem. I hope he has not suicidal thoughts as I think he is very upset and obsessed of loosing jobs. He is unable to cope with co workers as one of them told me about his behavior at work, he became very lonely, the only way of having contacts with people is chating with women on dating sites...he is doing this for one year almost , ONLY this, day by day. He is not talking with me, friends, family members.
I am afraid he will lose jobs and I know he can be very upset and angry with me and with recruiters.
He is sorry about me but in the same time wants to live separately. I do not understand why he is seeing me like an enemy and rejecting me without hating.
Thank you very much for your reply.
I was thinking to go to his GP but I was not sure if I am entitle to speak in my husband's name.
I have notice since I have met my husband that he is very poor in social contacts, he was very nervous when we went to parties in my family with some meltdowns after, his way of talking with new people is very strange. In the past he had few friends but not now, he avoids all our contacts even on skype.
Also in the last year he became very out of reality, spending money of vary bad projects like starting a business, is repeating more and more often the same thing even 20 time s per day and making my life impossible. His vocabulary is very poor that's why I am thinking about schizophrenia.
I don't think it is only a depression as he is very angry on all people, very suspicious hating almost everyone, very violent in speaking , swearing a lot (me, people around us). He forced me to transfer in his bank account a lot of money without any explanation, is very easy to convince to spend money by bad people around him.
Anyway thanks for your time and I will contact his GP.
All the best!
Hi Dr Love
I just came from my husband's GP told me that she can't make an apointment with me as time as I didn't have my husband's consent. In her opinion only if my husband is in her room it is ok, she doesn't talk to me. She said to go to my GP to tel him that I was punched by my husband or to domestic violence. This case is not in her job.
Is it true or not? What to do in this case?