We have been married for four months, together for three years.
This has always been an issue.
Her appropriate frequency for intercourse is "when it feels right" - I guess around once per week or so. It is entirely my issue though, not hers, as when we do have intercourse it is perfect. It is just my physical response to seeing, kissing or touching her that creates a need in me.
I do not look for gratification in other areas, I am just focused on my wife. Is there any medication I can take to control my urges as, once they are in my mind, I cannot seem to take any action to stop me going down that path?