This is Dr. David
have you met this girl in person before?
No I haven't. I know her for a period of months though.
I am just very worried.
I don't usually ask for help. I have studied a tad of psycology but I cannot understand exactly what is happening in this case.
but I need you to read a story for me
about a situation very similar to yours
have you ever considered the possibility that this person isn't who she claims she is?
I know her brother well too. He is in my clan. I knew him before I became her bf.
have you met him in person?
No I have not.
people can lie and deceive very easily over the internet.
I just want you to be aware of the possibility that these people are not who they claim they are .
I just don't want you to be more hurt than you have been.
did you read this story?
I read it
I still believe my gf is who she says she is.
Of course I cannot prove it.
I know deceptions do exist online though.
that is good you know that deceptions do exist online.
I just want you to be prepared in case this person isn't who they claim they are.
If she is who she claims she is.
What can I do about such a situation.
you can't do anything.
you have to allow her to grieve
people grieve in different ways.
So I just support her and wait for her to grieve. okay
I just needed advise because I don't want to hurt her.
you are not doing anything to hurt her.
I'm trying to do the right thing.
but she or he might not want to talk to you anymore.
there is no right thing to do here
you haven't done anything wrong.
I understand. I just support her and pray. Nothing else to do.
I felt I was in the wrong somehow
but you have to be careful and if you are very trusting person, it is very easy to get hurt on the internet when you build relationships with people you haven't met before.
you are welcome
you are not in the wrong.
this might be a person pretending to be someone else.
let me know if you have other questions.
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I realise this but I trust her. Thanks
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