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Hi right now i have a emotional pain which i dont know where

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Hi right now i have a emotional pain which i dont know where is comming from i am actually crying for no reason , I know there is a reason but is there any way to find the reason
Submitted: 2 years ago.
Category: Medical
Expert:  Dr. Phil, MD replied 2 years ago.

Dr. Phil, MD :

Hello. I'm Dr. Phil, licensed and practicing internist. Excellent service is my goal.

Dr. Phil, MD :

please enter chat mode

Dr. Phil, MD :

Hi I'm Dr. Phil

Dr. Phil, MD :

Can I ask your first name?

Customer: Hi
Customer: My name is Dren
Dr. Phil, MD :

Hi Dren

Dr. Phil, MD :

Nice to meet you

Dr. Phil, MD :

I'm sorry you are feeling so bad

Dr. Phil, MD :

Have you struggled with depression in the past?

Customer: no i have nott
Customer: And i dont know what to do
Dr. Phil, MD :

have you had any personal stress lately?

Dr. Phil, MD :

family? girlfriend? school? work?

Customer: I cant share with my parents because they dont want to see me unhappy
Customer: Yes with my girfriend
Dr. Phil, MD :

are you used to holding in emotion?

Customer: i have holded for so long and now i just cant anymore
Dr. Phil, MD :

I see.

Dr. Phil, MD :

so in your house, its not okay to show emotion?

Customer: It okay but i know that will hirt my parents and I dont want to do that
Dr. Phil, MD :

I see.

Dr. Phil, MD :

what happened with your girlfriend?

Customer: Welell i am going to tell you everything
Dr. Phil, MD :

ok go ahead

Customer: Everything started last year in september
Dr. Phil, MD :

ok go on

Customer: I moved in llondon from kosovo to study in may last year. I have mer my girfriend and I falled in love woth her ,
Customer: We started pur relationship in may
Dr. Phil, MD :

ok go on

Customer: But she lives in kosovo and I live here but most of the time i am in kosovo tto go and see her
Customer: On summerr in july 2013 all summer we had so much fun and loved each other
Customer: And in september i had to come back in london to study
Customer: Everything went well and we knew that we are not going to see each other until december
Dr. Phil, MD :

alright go on

Customer: After one month she told me that she is sad
Customer: I was asking her what was wrong
Customer: She did not tell me
Customer: She just kept saying im sad everyday
Customer: Than one day i was begining to wonder if im doing something wrong and she is not telling me
Dr. Phil, MD :

ok go on

Customer: And I asked her. Please tell me if im doing something wrong just dont let me in this sitouation tell me
Customer: If you need a break tell me
Customer: Tell me if u dont like me
Customer: When i said that
Dr. Phil, MD :

yes

Customer: She said we are going to break up
Customer: I was like why do we need to brake up there is noone in this world that loves you more than me
Dr. Phil, MD :

she was cheating right?

Customer: Than she said yes it is because i received a letter from my ex boyfriend telling me to comeback and he loves me more than you
Customer: No she wast
Customer: And when she said that I was so hurted soooooo deeeeply hurted
Customer: She did not know that
Customer: And she did not go with her ex boyfriend
Customer: The only thing that hurted me was why she did not value my love towards her
Dr. Phil, MD :

so are you with her now?

Customer: I was overthinking about that si nce october
Customer: Yes we are together
Dr. Phil, MD :

okay

Dr. Phil, MD :

I can tell you what is wrong

Dr. Phil, MD :

You have no outlet for emotion

Dr. Phil, MD :

so you simply bottle it up until it explodes

Customer: Okay
Customer: Yessss thats what i do is there any advice to overcome that
Dr. Phil, MD :

Yes, you have to see a counselor regularly

Dr. Phil, MD :

a therapist

Dr. Phil, MD :

someone you sit with once a week for one hour and talk about your emotion

Dr. Phil, MD :

That is the only way

Dr. Phil, MD :

It is actually quite healthy what you are experiencing now

Dr. Phil, MD :

your crying is good

Customer: I am crying
Dr. Phil, MD :

that is okay Dren

Dr. Phil, MD :

It's healthy

Customer: I also hated my boss. In my lart time job
Customer: And i quited my job
Dr. Phil, MD :

your body is letting out the emotion

Customer: Because he qas disrespecting me
Customer: Was*
Dr. Phil, MD :

good.

Dr. Phil, MD :

it's good you got out of that situation

Dr. Phil, MD :

I think you are fine Dren

Dr. Phil, MD :

you probably will feel much better when the crying is done

Customer: Yes i will feel but i am crying so often
Customer: Which that did not happen before
Dr. Phil, MD :

It's because you haven't shown emotion in a long time

Customer: So you think i will need a therapist once a week to talk woth him right
Dr. Phil, MD :

correcty

Customer: Yess
Dr. Phil, MD :

corrct

Dr. Phil, MD :

oops

Dr. Phil, MD :

correct

Customer: And another thing
Dr. Phil, MD :

yes

Customer: I know she has done everything and I know she loves me but somehoww I am not feeling safe my brain says you should feel safe but my emotion says you should not feel safe
Customer: And also this is my first relationship
Dr. Phil, MD :

don't think too much about it Dren

Dr. Phil, MD :

just let the relationship evolve naturally

Customer: Is it because distance or i dont know
Dr. Phil, MD :

probably

Customer: Yeah
Dr. Phil, MD :

ok Dren?

Customer: You''re right
Dr. Phil, MD :

:)

Dr. Phil, MD :

I have been through it all my friend :)

Customer: Your frieand has been through it?
Dr. Phil, MD :

No, I'm saying that I have been through it and I alled you "my friend"

Dr. Phil, MD :

called

Customer: Ohhh yesss yess
Dr. Phil, MD :

:)

Dr. Phil, MD :

Did I do excellent work for you today Dren?

Customer: Now i have stoped crying because i really needed to talk to someone
Customer: You did exellent
Dr. Phil, MD :

thank you Dren

Dr. Phil, MD :

See how nice this would be once a week with a therapist?

Dr. Phil, MD :

I think it would help your tremendously don't you?

Customer: But you know before I thought I have much to say but all of that is gone i forogot what I was going to ask now lol
Dr. Phil, MD :

LOL

Dr. Phil, MD :

just talking and some good emotion clears up a lot doesn't it?

Customer: Yess it does
Customer: Because if I do to my dad he gets emotional as well and that makes it worse for me
Dr. Phil, MD :

Alright I think you are good to go Dren

Dr. Phil, MD :

You know what to do :)

Customer: Do u live in UK
Dr. Phil, MD :

No, I live in America

Customer: Allright
Customer: Thank you verymuch for your help
Dr. Phil, MD :

would you mind giving me an excellent rating Dren?

Customer: I will do it an exellent rating
Dr. Phil, MD :

thanks Dren

Dr. Phil, MD :

Just click the excellent face for me

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