Yes, I do believe everything is fine with us. The only situation we have at the moment is that her grand mother (father's mother) has pancreatic cancer and was diagnosed before Christmas. We have tried to not talk about it in front of her but I am not sure if she has overheard. I don't really think she understands. She does ask about her grand mother and talks to her normally when she sees her. So I don't think this is affecting her?