I don't get much sensation during oral or sex I enjoy the visual side of it. It can take me a long time to orgasm (over an hour ) and sometimes it does not happen but this does not bother me. The fact I can go for an hour with a very sexually experienced and hot lady make me feel good:) but it would be nice to always come. I don't find the orgasm mind blowing but I have no idea what is normal. My only point of reference is porn but this is so over the top anyway.
I now suspect that using masturbation as my only form of sex may have desensitised me. I tend to come quickly on my own.
Thanks I will check with a doctor. I do drink but not excessively and I have been checked recently for diabetes as my brother has it (5 years younger) and I did have high blood sugar. I lost 2 stone and my blood sugar is now normal.
I have a further question but it is on a different sexual topic so I am assuming I will need to pay again?
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Hi Sorry I was out of the house.
The reason I delayed so long in using escorts was the risk of SDI being passed on to my wife. We may now be starting to have sex again (long story) but it is likely I will still continue to see one escort I have known for 2 years.
My question is around the risk to my wife if I have oral and sex with a condom with a lady who will never offer either without but I give her oral un protected? This lady was not available recently and I used a different escort who gave me unprotected oral but protected sex. I was concerned so had a full sexual health check and was completely clear.
What is the risk of me giving a escort unprotected oral?
What is the risk of me receiving unprocted oral from an escort?
Both more from passing it on to my wife no affecting me?
Many thanks Dave