Hello, this is Dr K.. Answers are not medical advice and do not constitute a doctor/patient relationship. I look forward to helping you today. Hello Nevaeh. This is a very unsafe situation for you. It is called domestic violence and is abuse. You should not marry this man and should not stay with him. In the early stages of a relationship, abuse may not come out. As the relationship progresses, the abuser becomes more and more controlling and dangerous. http://www.thehotline.org/is-this-abuse/abuse-defined/ This link will show you how the behavior you describe is abuse. It is also the link to the National Domestic Violence talk and chat line. Get in touch with them as soon as possible.