I drafted the following email below have not sent it yet but this disrcibes
what happen when I was last with them 2 weeks ago for my fathers birthday.
I called her earlier and told her that she was a sociopath with multiple addiction , she hung up because when I screamed at her in France she told me over the phone that its makes her feel insecure and she is scared of me when I attach her because no one in the family will stand up to her I am the only one.
Thanks exactly what I thought. How to I approach a really sick person who does not think there is something wrong with them like my mom
my brothers are useless they wont help how do I get people to intervention when she is like this I could call a family meeting but that wont help in need a couple independent intermediates to help what do you think if I cant do anything what happens next her condition will get worst and my dad the effects on him what happens
I have tried numerous times perhaps if I say I love her which I do but not her addictions its hard this woman has serious defence mechanisms around her and I difficult to approach she is quite scared of me at the moment as she see's me as a threat. Its what my sponsor and me call being recovered and well vs. being sick in addiction basically health in sobriety vs. sickness in addiction Im at a lost cause with this situation as she controls everything perhaps helping her to achieve a very serious bike accident may wake her up just kidding ))
im tired of doctors and medical professionals I talk to they don't have any more answers I gone through treatment aftrercare 2 recovery centers and I see this as a hopeless cause . how can I protect my dad
Hi thanks good idea I should have though of that being in AA myself
now I need to take dad to a meeting that may give him some light on
it and help regain his sanity and also deal with her.
Hay Dr Chip,
I will try to get my dad to go but it will be hard because of my mother plus he did Freudian phyco analysis years ago and thinks he is cured
good night speak again