I drafted the following email below have not sent it yet but this disrcibes
what happen when I was last with them 2 weeks ago for my fathers birthday.
Mom, Dad, and Richard.
The purpose of this email to outline the facts of My Mothers Mental illnesses.
This is not to have a personal go at her just to outline what is happening
as her illnesses manifests its self unfortunately
Below are a list of the 4 addictions which are active.
1. Compulsive overspending.
4. Over exercising.
Plus Sociopathic behaviour which she uses to control and manipulate my father.
These 4 addictions and Sociopathic behaviour are the main reasons my father
is suffering at the moment. Being around an individual and exposed to these
active addiction can cause many problems. My father at the moment is suffering
from short tem memory loss and confusion. No matter how high his Intelligence is
and his ability to use it and reason in order to make decisions cannot beat his
condition in the long run which is degenerative. Another problem is he feels
fear from my mother and finds it hard to challenge her and does not want the mental
headache or aggravation from the psychological abuse she hands out to him
if he says NO to something she wants to do. Also another issue which occurred to
me is that my father does not know his own password ***** his email account which
he uses to conduct his business. My mother claims that because of he forgets things
if she tells him he will forget. He remember the 2 previous emails, neither of them worked.
I suggested something simple and secure that he could remember. Her response was
she did not trust me , ( I never wanted the email password ***** myself, I wanted my father to have I so he could
access his email as its his account.as he should its his account no one else's.)
I also noticed that when my father tried the 2 passwords that he though were the correct one's he was unable to login to his account. Then Gmail indicated that my mothers mobile telephone number was linked to his account as his security back up which Gmail will send sms messages to. My mother justified this buy saying someone had tried to break in to his account. There is to my knowledge no proof of this as she got very angry when I engaged her.I reacted very badly to my mother as I felt she was trying to control his account and would not let
him alone on his account. She sat next to myself when she was looking for a few emails for me that
contained information about certain assets my father is looking to get back from Barclays. ( which he offered
me POA to go and retrieve with Richard Hollingsworth on his behalf off course.) and return to the trust.
This situation is extremely frustrating as when my mother gets involved she said maybe dad does not
own the shares. We have emails proving he does. I Just don't know which company there are in I know
from the information Dad let me have which mom off course send from his email account to mine.
Unfortunately my mothers attitude is nothing less than a hindrance as she possesses no knowledge
of finance or business. My father got upset and slightly mad when she said maybe they are not yours
and my fathers response was well Elinor I guess you don't want me to get the shares i.e. Coca cola shares.
less money for her to spend.
I was also on dads cell phone speaking to Martin Hanna in the office in the Bahamas. When my mother stayed
beside my trying to get me to get me off Dads phone which she said was low on credit not charge. This was
later because I found out she overspent again and said to dad that when she went to the bank machine which said it was empty, which does not surprise me she was covering up saying that the health insurance had to be payed.
The truth was that she had no cash except for cash she had in her wallet and the UBS credit card. So she typed an email to UBS to get them to send 4,000 euro's as a once off payed with dad sitting next to her telling her what to write to the banker.
The complete unmanageability and insanity that this woman is creating in everyone's life's needs to stop and stop
very fast. At the end of the day she is hurting everyone else around her and Myself and all my brothers have been
effected in different ways from her active addictions and behaviour. I challenged my mother on several occasions
and got extremely angry as she is not normal and dealing with an individual with these active addictions will drive
anyone who is actually sane complete nuts. I yelled screamed and sweared to try and break down hear EGO which is massive at the moment. The behaviour she possess is extremely selfish , self centred , which is the exact core of her addiction, Unfortunately she is completely empty inside if you take all the addictions away. She would
never she a medical doctor unless she was injured or sick. A top class physiatrist would see strait through her
and she has never gone and claims she does not need to. She is only fooling herself and hiding from her on fears and insecurities. Her Issue really sits with her father who treated her like a man and tried to de feminize her .
As she has tried to demascualted my father and my brothers. I am a different kettle of fish I am a warrior and
this has not worked on me as over the past 8.5 years of being sober from alcohol and drugs I can see through
everything and no of it fools me for a second. This situation regarding my mother will only continue to get worst.
Technically as none of these addictions that my mother has are illegal, she will not get arrested. But death and
Institutions are what are next and also many serious accidents that will occur directly from her over exercising addiction, like biking and running. I won in London because I possess the ability to predict the future based on human behaviour and that people don't change. I have had to change In order to survive but the thrive , which I have. Plus My father is an amazing teacher and his Cycle work proves that history repeats its self and people
don't learn from it they try to change it , but they cannot, we can only change our self's. If we want to
and can be honest and possess the courage to change. Them with a 12 step program its possible
and a lot of hard work. My purpose was not to make you feel insure it was to try to make you aware
of what you are doing to yourself and your husband my father and my brothers your sons. There is no
one around you at home that will actually challenge you like me. Because I have no fear and I am a warrior to the death. I never stop trying or giving up because that is the mentality of a loser not a winner. Oh don't try to think you your exercising makes you a winner I does not the more you do the more you loose because you have not figured out what your doing is actually insane. Nothing more nothing less.