sorry my aunt making her the childrens great aunt and i have idea who advised this as she will not say when asked
they had to stay with her as i was in prison however i always had visit till the point of temporary release and the children would stay with me for 3 days a month for 2 years. then on my full release in January she will not let them stay over night as before though they come every week to my house to spend time with me and their older brothers. the children have always called me mummy and i do have a great bond with them
we do not argue or discuss anything in front of the children, when they were in my care i corrected them, it was later my aunt telephoned me to tell me not to do it again and it is happening more often they are referring to her as mummy when talking about her in my care. although a big deal hasn't been made in front of the children. do i encourage the truth to be stated and thank for for your advise.