This is Dr. David
you could be suffering from chronic constipation or irritable bowel syndrome.
you could also have inflammation of your bladder or over active bladder syndrome.
you might have glutten bowel allergy causing bloating.
you might need more bowel testing with a colonoscopy and also a cystoscopy to look inside of the bladder.
once your bowels and bladder are less inflamed, this could let sex be less painful.
you might need to use more lubrication as well during sex.
you have to ask your GP in the UK to be referred to a GI doctor for your bowels
and a urology doctor for your bladder.
a GI specialist can do a colonoscopy and do more testing to check for inflamed bowels or inflammatory bowel disease.
and a urologist can look inside of your bladder to check for cystitis or interstitial cystitis.
interstitial cystitis is very painful
and can cause blood in the urine
and is often mistaken for a bladder infection.
but there is no bacteria in the urine.
do you have trace or microscopic blood in your urine frequently?
ask your doctor to be referred to a urologist.
and to be checked for interstitial cystitis.
that could be causing your pain.
best of luck to you
let me know if you have other questions.
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