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Hi, I keep being very paranoid about my wife for some reason

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Hi, I keep being very paranoid about my wife for some reason and feeling low. I feel like i need to talk to her all the time and worry that shes not happy with me (for absolutely no reason). We have two children and have been together 12 years (married for 3), i have never felt like this before and don't know what has triggered it. I am worried that i will be like this forever now.
Submitted: 2 years ago.
Category: Medical
Expert:  DrRussMD replied 2 years ago.
Hello
Have you told her about these feelings.
Have you had any therapy?
Expert:  DrRussMD replied 2 years ago.
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Customer: replied 2 years ago.

apologies i had been to cancelling twice but didn't really get much from it.

Expert:  DrRussMD replied 2 years ago.
I am not talking about counseling.
I am talking about family therapy with your wife, from a PhD clinical psychologist: you have not had this?
Customer: replied 2 years ago.

no i haven't.

Expert:  DrRussMD replied 2 years ago.
OK
Therapy involves both of you, not just you.
Also a PHD can make a diagnosis, and will have methodology.
That is what you should really do next.
It has to be in person,and there has to be a methedology.
OK, so that is an initial answer….
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Customer: replied 2 years ago.

OK, so you don't know what it is i.e depression etc?

i don't really want to go to therapy with my wife as i want to deal with this myself.

To be honest i just want to feel like myself again as at the moment its frustrating the life out of me.

Expert:  DrRussMD replied 2 years ago.
You can not get a diganosis on line.
It could be any one of a number of disorders
anxiety
depression
mood disorder
paranoid disorder
personality disorder
and others.
That is why you need a professional who is allowed to do a diagnoses.
Not wanting to include your wife also indicates a problem.
But the therapist can help with this.
Please use reply to expert if you have further questions. When you are ready, please click a positive rating [hopefully excellent]. If you forgot something, come back. I am here daily.
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