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I accompanied my late husband too his hospital visits to see

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I accompanied my late husband too his hospital visits to see his Oncologist, after he passed away the Dr called offered his sympathy and said if we would ever to have a chat I could come and see him with my children
Is that a sincere offer or just a courtesy one ?
Submitted: 2 years ago.
Category: Medical
Expert:  Dr. Charogat replied 2 years ago.
Dr. Charogat :

Hi,

Dr. Charogat :

If the doctor offered it without your asking for it then I would guess that is a real offer.

Dr. Charogat :

Any good doctor who is dedicated to his patients might be willing to do this.

Dr. Charogat :

This would especially be true if you had a relationship with him before your husband passed.

Dr. Charogat :

(I'm sorry to hear of this and hope things get better for you).

Dr. Charogat :

The doctor had no reason to call and offer his sympathy. That pretty much convinces me that he was being sincere

Dr. Charogat :

Does this help?

Customer: Yes. , it is fair and objective, although we saw him only for about a year and we knew that my husband no no survival chance maybe I should go and say bi and thank you as certainly the last time he saw my husband did not seem as last at that time
Dr. Charogat :

It sounds like a good idea.

Dr. Charogat :

You might want to bring along a small gift, even a plate of cookies for him (and maybe his staff) if you are going to show your appreciation.

Customer: Ok thank u
Dr. Charogat :

I don't think you have to feel any pressure that you need to go

Customer: yes , thank you again
Customer: bi
Dr. Charogat :

It seems to me that he left it open to your desire

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Have a great day

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G-d Bless

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