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Thrombosed hemorrhoids arecommon problem.
THis can be caused by the long standing or sitting job as well due to the increase in the venous pressure at the anal region.
Hence not concerning usually.
YOu should increase the fluid intake.
However, you also have bladder control problem.
This is likely overactive bladder related issue given yor age.
Stress can cause excessive bladder muscle contractions.
Now, you can consider anti cholinergic medications to control your bladder problem.
Oxybutynine, Solifenacin are such examples and usually work well.
Limit caffeine and alcohol intake as well.
In summary, this is not concerning.
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