Thank you. One of my problems is that my husband is not well and this has added to his troubles - worrying about both the slanders, the cousins who believe them, (as does my brother's wife) and anxiety that he will get more nasty letters. He is also worried about me as my sister had a breakdown after sustained horrible treatment from him but I am not emotionally vulnerable as she is. I just want to support my husband but not feel guilty about breaking contact with my brother. Should I get counselling from a psychotherapist or which kind of specialist?