Hi. Just to be clear here--you both have a drinking problem and were both going to go to the clinic?
Was this to be for inpatient treatment?
Yes, we both have na alcohol problem and it was for an inpatient treatment
Well, we can continue after this for certain but if he refuses to go and you know you need the treatment then you need to go yourself. Perhaps in time he'll also decide to go but you need to take care of yourself and get the treatment now.
Let me know if you need to discuss this with me further, and I'll be happy to continue
I have stopped, but what can I do if he is asking for more wine all the time.
Yes, and shouting at everyone.
No he hasn't stopped although we got medication from his GP. And he says he can't get on the plane in this state, but it's just getting worse. I don't know what to do.