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My husband is 70 and I'm finding it very hard now. I've

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My husband is 70 and I'm finding it very hard now. I've beening married to him for 40 yrs and only just realize he's a narcissistic man.Help i need to know how I can carry on living with him as he hates every one around me and it hurts.
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Medical
Expert:  Dr. Phil, MD replied 1 year ago.

sorry for this simplicity of my question but : why not leave?

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
he is a compulsive liar too I don't want to leave him at the moment.
Expert:  Dr. Phil, MD replied 1 year ago.

so he is a narcissist, compulsive liar and hates everyone around you but you don't want to leave. Am I missing something?

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
he's my husband and i'm a fool I suppose I don't love him now but I care what happens to him and i don't want to leave my home.I just want to know how or what can i do to survive living this way.
Expert:  Dr. Phil, MD replied 1 year ago.

You will likely need to go on medications that make you not care like anti depressants

zoloft or prozac should help

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
I see so there is no advise just drugs for me great "i don't think so".I need to get a back bone then.
Expert:  Dr. Phil, MD replied 1 year ago.

I think you know what you need to do

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Customer: replied 1 year ago.
Thanx I guess.