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My partner says he wants kids, but makes excuses not to

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my partner says he wants kids, but makes excuses not to sleep with me, first it was because i wasnt having periods but i had medication to help me, an then he still wouldnt do his part an i was getting very sick on the meds, so i came off them, then he says theres no point because im not on them. i have periods now and he still makes excuses saying theres no point because im not ovulating even though i am. i try to talk to him about this and he just says "i dunno" or gets mad at me saying im going on at him, which im not i just want to know where we stand, im worried our opportunaties are slipping away due to the age gap, im 23 and he is almost 54, he refuses to take any fertility tests and claims he dont need to because hes had a child in a previous relationship, his son is the same age as me. i dont know what to do as he wont talk to me about anything serious.
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Expert:  wieyedoc replied 7 months ago.

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Customer: replied 7 months ago.
we have been together almost 6 years, i dont think he has any medical conditions, he refuses to go to the doctors and claims he hasnt been for 20 years, i have weight issues and been diagnosed with pcos but im not on any meds and have been told my ovaries are clear.
Expert:  wieyedoc replied 7 months ago.

It sounds like the two of you have different goals when it comes to having a child.

You might want to consider family counseling or, unfortunately, moving on to a new relationship.

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