I am sorry to tell you that this is absolutely without question a scam.
Now I am not sure if the site itself is 100% a scam all though I do find a number of complaints out there claiming that it is. What I mean by the site being a scam is that the profiles of women are fake. In regards ***** ***** site I would suggest you pay them no more money.
They will automatically bill you monthly so make sure you turn off reccuring billing by doing the following:
On xmeeting click edit profile' choose'settings' tab. From there untick the 'recurring' checkbox.
Now as for being asked to contact someone off the site you were definitely being set up for be robbed.
Usually what will happen is an attractive girl will message you and ask you to contact them via email. They then will often ask you to chat on skype. They will try and get you to take your clothes off all the while they record it. They then will post your video online and threaten to send it to your family or friends unless you pay them money. It is a pretty common scam and many people get caught in it.
That may not be the exact scam they were setting you up for but they were absolutely getting ready to set you up which is why they were using an anonymous email.
The good thing for you is that you did have this issue and spoke to me.
As for your email, it is fine I am sure. The issue was likely on their end if there was any real issue at all, we cannot trust what they say.
Here is an article issued by the FBI in regards ***** ***** type of scam:http://www.fbi.gov/sandiego/press-releases/2014/looking-for-love-beware-of-online-dating-scams
So what you should do is not continue to use that site and do not reply to emails from anyone you met on that site. In the future before you join any dating websites just do a quick google search for "is whateverwebsite a scam" , there are usually reviews out for these type of sites and you can find out beforehand and save yourself some time and frustration not to mention money.
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