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Monika Hearne, M.D., Board Certified OB/GYN
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Hello Please dont judge me, as I never thought I would be in this situation but I

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Hello

Please don't judge me, as I never thought I would be in this situation but I am. I am pregnant and unfortunately have slept with 2 men in close proximity. The date of the first day of my last period is the 18th November. I had sex with my current partner on the 26th,27th,28th,1st,3rd and 4th December and more times after. However I slep with my ex on the 29th and 30th November. I did a test on the 8th December which said I wasn't pregnant. Then did one followed by 2 more on 21st December which said I was pregnant. I personally believe I din't get pregnant until December. But can't be sure. Please Please help. My current partner is aware.

Thank you
Submitted: 3 years ago.
Category: OB GYN
Expert:  Dr Owen replied 3 years ago.

Dr Owen :

Hello - I will not judge you... so please do not worry

JACUSTOMER-m6dsy9id- :

thank you

Dr Owen :

Hello - well since the test was negative on the 8th of December you did NOT get until december then

Dr Owen :

Do MORE than likely you got pregnant In December

Dr Owen :

and more likely you got pregnant on the 3rd/ 4th if those are the only days and not later you had sex with anyone

JACUSTOMER-m6dsy9id- :

Im just concerned the test was faulty or I didn't have significant hormone to show on the test

JACUSTOMER-m6dsy9id- :

I have only had sex with 1 man since December first

Dr Owen :

Well a test can be positive as soon as 6 days after conception -

Dr Owen :

so more than likely this is a positive form the 3rd/ 4th of December

Dr Owen :

what you should do to confirm this is get an ultrasound - and get the fetus 'measured' as that is fairly accurate Early on in a pregnancy

JACUSTOMER-m6dsy9id- :

Its just a big risk to take and I would never do that to somebody

Dr Owen :

I understand

Dr Owen :

I hope I have helped

JACUSTOMER-m6dsy9id- :

How accurate is the ultrasound?

Dr Owen :

the earlier the ultrasound the more accurate - so if done now - the ultrasound is accurate to within 3 days,

Dr Owen :

so if you can get an ultrasound this week - that would be best

JACUSTOMER-m6dsy9id- :

I was told I shouldn't have one until around 10-12 weeks by my doctor?

Dr Owen :

you should have one done NOW - it is more accurate

JACUSTOMER-m6dsy9id- :

I wasn't aware I was allowed one.

Dr Owen :

at 10 to 12 weeks they become less accurate - so about within 5 to 6 days of accuracy - whereas done now - it is accurate to within 3 days

Dr Owen :

You can have one - you have to ask

Dr Owen :

It is safe to have one

Dr Owen :

I wish you wel

Dr Owen :

well

Dr Owen :

and I hope all works out for you

JACUSTOMER-m6dsy9id- :

Ok thank you. Do I ask my doctor or local hospital?

Dr Owen :

you can ask the hospital or your ob/gyn

Dr Owen :

I wish you well

Dr Owen :

Please click on Excellent for helping you

Dr Owen :

Thank you

JACUSTOMER-m6dsy9id- :

Last question. Can I save this chat?

Dr Owen :

it is saved in 'My Questions' when you click on Excellent

Dr Owen :

thank you

Dr Owen :

are you there?

Dr Owen :

Hello

Dr Owen :

what happened?

Dr Owen :

Hello -

Dr Owen :

Are you there?

Dr Owen :

why did you do that

Dr Owen :

why did you give me poor service

Dr Owen :

did you ask me not to judge you

Dr Owen :

I gave you outstanding service

Dr Owen :

and helped you

Dr Owen :

why did you give me poor service for helping you - can you please tell me that

Dr Owen :

well good luck on your pregnancy

Dr Owen :

good luck with the paternity

Dr Owen :

bye

Dr Owen :

May I ask - why did you request me ?

Dr Owen :

Please tell me why you gave me a poor rating - what did I do ?

Dr Owen :

did you make a mistake by clicking on poor?

Dr Owen :

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