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Dr. Norm S.
Dr. Norm S., Board Certified OB/GYN
Category: OB GYN
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Experience:  Over 30 years of experience in OB/GYN practice, including teaching students. Fellow of American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology.
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Had sex for first time but he used his finger, since than it

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Had sex for first time but he used his finger, since than it feels wired down there is this normal
Submitted: 3 years ago.
Category: OB GYN
Expert:  Dr. Norm S. replied 3 years ago.
Hello and welcome.
I am Dr. Norm, and I look forward to helping you today.
Do you mean it feels weird down there? How does it feel?
So he put his finger in, but not his penis? Thank you.
Customer: replied 3 years ago.
It looks red in inside and it looks like I have a spot , and he used his finger not his penis .
Expert:  Dr. Norm S. replied 3 years ago.
What does the spot look like?
Is the red from blood or from reddened tissue?
Customer: replied 3 years ago.
A pus spot and it looks like reddened tissue. I am coming on my period I have just finished my pill .
I scared and worried about it . Could it be due to friction
Expert:  Dr. Norm S. replied 3 years ago.
Most likely it is due to friction.
It's not likely that he did any real damage with his finger (assuming you didn't have a great deal of pain at the time).
A pus spot suggests a local infection. That will likely resolve with heat and time. I would recommend sitting in some warm water with epsom salts or putting a warm washcloth on that area, also using warm/hot water with epsom salts, which are soothing and healing.
I think you'll likely feel normal within a few days.
Customer: replied 3 years ago.
But dose it all sound normal
Expert:  Dr. Norm S. replied 3 years ago.
It sounds like he was probably rougher than usual. Otherwise I think it sounds normal.
Customer: replied 3 years ago.
I did bleed when it first happened
Expert:  Dr. Norm S. replied 3 years ago.
Yes. And you'll likely bleed more when you first have intercourse. That's normal from intercourse, and suggests rough use of a finger.
Customer: replied 3 years ago.
Oh ok ain't there nothing I can put on it
Expert:  Dr. Norm S. replied 3 years ago.
No, only heat. Putting anything else on it is more likely to cause problems than to be helpful.
Customer: replied 3 years ago.
Ok
Expert:  Dr. Norm S. replied 3 years ago.
You're welcome.
Customer: replied 3 years ago.
It just don't look right
Expert:  Dr. Norm S. replied 3 years ago.
It's probably a good idea to see your doctor for an exam then.
Customer: replied 3 years ago.

My doctor said I have a uti . I'm just scared incase it is something more than that . Or if it us just where i have beeno strecthed and I and brusied and inflammed. Will it take a while to clam down ?

Expert:  Dr. Norm S. replied 3 years ago.
If you have a uti, then antibiotics should clear it up.
If you're bruised and inflamed, it should settle down within several days, depending on how well you take care of it.
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Expert:  Dr. Norm S. replied 3 years ago.
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