Thank you so much Jo this will help us so much,my husband is not that is violent but he need to have more patience with our children with their mistakes and he things I am wrong if I let them go away when they do misciff at home or away,he just want them civillised but kids like to play and do explain to them when they do things are wrong or to much I think they are very normal for their age 3,7 and 10 is only maybe my husband has been the only child to his parents and was more quite in their house but I come from a family of four and I find noise normal and a life,I hope you understand me,I only want to figure out to my husband that he needs to relax with them and have good time together as they are growing at such a super fast speed and he misses to build up a beautiful friendship for life,he reacts more as a police man and want to fine them for every little move they make,this is how it feels unfortunately,
Thank you so much I did said to my dear man I need to speak with some experts as is very hard to carry on this way,we need all the advise we can get as is very hard to be a good parent.
God bless you Jen and your family
you don't know how much difference your voice will make for us,this was one of my greatest decisions I made,I am so much happier now that I know your great opinion on parenting,I do know I make so many mistakes as a mother but I only want for all the children to have a happy childhood is so important and the foundation of their life,to be full happy,the worries are for later when they can deal with that I don't want them to grow frustrated as they are missing on being children after all when to be happy if not at this age?!
I can not thankyou enough Jen,we will keep in touch I need your support,
I must go to sleep now as tomorrow I have to give my help and patience to all they need it,
I wish you all the best every day millions times a day