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Hello! I have two children - 13,5 and 6 years old. I am talking

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Hello! I have two children - 13,5 and 6 years old. I am talking about my elder daughter. Coincidentally, she experienced her first seven years in a tense atmosphere, misunderstandings and scandals. We lived with the grandmother now my ex-husband. Somehow, unwittingly, it reinforced in her the wrong picture that I am guilty about everything and I do not deserve respect, and all that she wants she could achieve with shouts and scandals. It is true that now she grows and needs emotionally detach from me, developing her identity, but in most cases she is tense, nervous and answers almost collapsing emotionally when there are small problems and difficulties. We have lives apart from her father for five years and there is nothing that could create tension. We were looking for a child psychologist, but she only upset her, talk to her about her problems with her father and there was no effect. I think that she needs her inner confidence to stand up and fight with the problems. She does not share with me what was bothering her and experiencing internal stress. Please give me advice on how to help my child?
Submitted: 2 years ago.
Category: Paediatrics
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Expert:  Dr. Y. Vasavada replied 2 years ago.
Hello,
Sorry about this issue. she is at transitional age and having some hormone adjustments which may be causing this turmoil.
You can in this situation just be supportive and continue to show same affection, empathy and patient understanding to her.
Hopefully she will be able to come to terms with reality, know you better and grow psychologically out of this turmoil.

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