Hello, Im wondering if my replies are getting through to you ? please advise. thank you
Hi , just to clarify... this girl my step daughter is 29, married , seperated , unemployed, with two girls, 9 & 7, gets maintenance from her husband, childrens allowance, lone parents allowance, and some other state benefits, . She has never worked & in the past has stayed inour house with her girls on numerous occasions, . My husband and I paid the deposit and a 2 months rent to get her on her feet, on a rented house, buying a bed, fire guard, Curtains, fills of heating oil, Cars, car insurance, and financial assistNCE ehenever we could afford and even stimes when we couldnt. She lost her licence over driving under the influence of alcohol, continues to spend finds on cigarettes and alcohol even tho she should be sorting out bills. I just feel that I am now alone, and have my own daughter to rear and hopefully get tru college etc that I can ill afford to continue to rear her as well. i took reduncancy from my job & am now doing a Bussiness Internatioalisation course in college two days a wk to see if I can get back into work force. I am anxious as to what legal claim my step daughter has on what my husband left to me in his will. Her husband would be of a " non desirable " nature & although they re seperated I know they still communicate , indeed if it could be called " Communication " , .. I miss my husband terribly, & am absolutely shattered by the loss . If he was still with me we would discuss all this over a nice mug of tea at the kithchen table, & I would get reassusrance as always & love, & kindness & the words " well get tru this together Honey " ..
There is a house , bungalow, 130k . needs renovating, one or 2 fields prob about 30k worth in total , a yard i suppose about 200k in total .. difficult to know exactly... why has that a direct bearing on her legal claim. ???
No they werent as we both had out own properties when we met, we didnt feel the need to put them in joint names. Is this an issur. you are really starting to get very concerned and worried. Is my husbands will not sufficient ???
Ah Thank you ,Im So broken hearted , and I would give a million opounds to have my husband back for just a Day . I wish You and your loved ones well. give en extra BIG hug to yor loved ones .. you really never know the day ... I got 8 weeks to get used to idea .. Well less as we hoped treatment would work thanks again Claire