Kate thankyou for your reply. She is constantly going on about me being stupid and not listening to her. I have only had 4 texts off her since she stopped speaking to me. All we had was a heat of words (i'd just sent her money and then said you don;t understand love (which she does) and put phone down. Clearly she now feels enough is enough/we rarely argue in our relationship but once before in thailand she left me following an argument and luckily she came back next day this time i dont think she will, She has pressures clearly from her mum (i suspect she has told her she must go to work to support the family) and if i've moaned about money well....
This is no more imo than a lovers tiff but...she has overreaced and said its over no matter how many texts or calls i've sent her. I'm not in Thailand now so i cannot go see her to sort things out. I don;t want to lose her she is my life everything. I have sent her a text telling her of the good times that i still love her i want her to get her back and i will listen to her and do the things she wants me to change. But she is adamant i won;t change cos if i could i would. I didn;t realise i had things too much i needed to change. But i now think i'm a million to get back with her. Previously i think the relationship was pretty good i was with her and her family on hols in May.
But do i now give her space or try contacting her. It looks pretty final to me but i cannot believe this. Without me putting the phone down on her Fri am we would deffo still be together.
Don't believe she doesn't love me but...i don;t want to be with soemoen who doesn't love me