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I believe that I can help. Beech Hill people are generally not openly impressed by show of wealth. It may not be politically correct to have a 530d in that area. Perhaps a refurbished VW Beatle might do better there.
I assume you are talking about the intentional community in Berkshire.
Of course, many women (and men) would love this car, but you must be kind, attentive, and witty as well. Perhaps you are all of that already.
If so, I would look outside of your community for women. You already have a smart car. Now you must find a smart woman to go with it.
Elliott, MAE, LPCC, NCC, CCMHC