Hello, I am Rafael. Thanks for asking your question - I'm here to support you. (Information posted here is not private or confidential but public).
I am very sorry to know about this overwhelming situation you and your children have been undergoing.
Could you please tell me for how long have you been married and how long ago did he start being this abusive?
No form of abuse is acceptable, whether it is verbal, emotional, physical, financial or sexual, even more when vulnerable children are involved.
These are two very important sources where you could get help to effectively cope with this tough situation:
http://www.womensaid.ie/?gclid=CJvf15z66LkCFSs72wod4CYABg WOMAN'S AID
and http://www.cosc.ie/en/COSC/Pages/WP08000140 The National Office for the Prevention of Domestic, Sexual and Gender-based Violence
I am here to dialogue about it if you want to join the chat
Thank you for being here.
Could you please tell me more about your situation,answering my questions?