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I believe that I can help you but you will have to rephrase your question because one of the key words came out as all Xs.
What I see is this:
Hi if a guy says he can't turn his feelings off and xxxxx what does that mean
what is xxxxxx?
He cant turn his feels off and he can't turn his kisses off? Can you explain please?
Are you talking about yourself or about someone else?
Then he must love you and is trying to tell you that those feelings are coming from deep within him.
He cannot turn them off. They are part of his true feelings.
You should be flattered that he feels so strongly about you and desires you.
Of course, if you do not have the same feelings for him, then it can make you feel very uncomfortable.
How do you feel about him?
And do you want him?
And what does he mean when he says he wants you? He wants you for sex?
You AND the girlfriend? He can't have both very well.
Do you want HIM in YOUR life?
And that complicates matters even more? But still, do you want him in your life?
So your relationship with your best friend doesn't mean all that much.
Because men get sexually stimulated very easily, especially young men.
It is not necessarily because it is you, but because you are a female..
This is not love; it is lust and very typical of a young man.