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Hi if a guy says he cant turn his feelings off and xxxxx what

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Hi if a guy says he can't turn his feelings off and xxxxx what does that mean
Submitted: 3 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Elliott, LPCC, NCC replied 3 years ago.

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

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Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

Dear friend,

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

I believe that I can help you but you will have to rephrase your question because one of the key words came out as all Xs.

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

What I see is this:

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

Hi if a guy says he can't turn his feelings off and xxxxx what does that mean

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

what is xxxxxx?

Customer : They were kisses
Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

He cant turn his feels off and he can't turn his kisses off? Can you explain please?

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

Are you talking about yourself or about someone else?

Customer : Basically he's been telling me how much Iean to him n yesterday I was worried he didn'tean what he said then he wrote I cannot them off my feelings I have for u
Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

Then he must love you and is trying to tell you that those feelings are coming from deep within him.

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

He cannot turn them off. They are part of his true feelings.

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

You should be flattered that he feels so strongly about you and desires you.

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

Of course, if you do not have the same feelings for him, then it can make you feel very uncomfortable.

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

How do you feel about him?

Customer : He keeps telling me How much he wants me
Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

And do you want him?

Customer : He has a gf
Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

And what does he mean when he says he wants you? He wants you for sex?

Customer : Wants me in his life
Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

You AND the girlfriend? He can't have both very well.

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

Do you want HIM in YOUR life?

Customer : He's been so nice with everything he's saying
Customer : His gf is actually my best friend
Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

And that complicates matters even more? But still, do you want him in your life?

Customer : I would yeah he took me home the other night n we played
Customer : Apparently I make him sooo hard n as soon as we started kissing he went hard
Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

So your relationship with your best friend doesn't mean all that much.

Customer : Why does he get so hard over me
Customer : He starts touching me up when he sits next to me on there house
Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

Because men get sexually stimulated very easily, especially young men.

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

It is not necessarily because it is you, but because you are a female..

Elliott, LPCC, NCC :

This is not love; it is lust and very typical of a young man.

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