Hello, I am Rafael. Thanks for asking your question - I'm here to support you. (Information posted here is not private or confidential but public).
I am very sorry to know about this very frustrating situation.
Could you please tell me for how long have you known this person?
Your story seems to show a person who is not truly interested in developing any serious relationship with you. It has been several months since t started and all the behaviors you described show he wanted to have something with you but not something serious, and that'w why she told you he chooses her and then that was it. He kept your presents for that long,, making it harder for you...
ok so what now
What are your core needs and expectations from a relationship?
with him - I just felt we clicked and could have been good together but I cant explain his constant frustration
Form your story it is clear that you are looking for an exclusive relationship, right? What else do you feel you need and want from a partner?
a happy life, set up home that kind of thing. im wanting to know whether I have that with him
Sorry, it seems you are looking for a "psychic" to guess about your future, as you commented you tried before. Is that what you are looking for here?
Could you please clarify?