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Hi. I want to begin by saying
how impressed I am with your thinking on this.
There must be a lot of emotion involved as well, so I'm sure it's hard to think about breaking up after all this time.
Am I correct in my impression that he's ethnically a Sikh? Not that he is an American who decided to adopt the Sikh religion?
Thus his family are also ethnically Sikhs as well?
yes - but is that your first answer please? find the one you aid you et! it just keeps showing my question and the disclaimer. Could you post your reply again please?
I only so far have asked about his family, which you've answered. And my impression
is that he hasn't felt comfortable to introduce you even to his friends, not only his family. Correct?
Yes although he stopped wearing a turban at 18! Otherwise they all practise
Yes, I understand. This happens often in "second generation" ethnic communities.
However, the pattern applies here that also happens often:
he keeps his "Americanized" love life separate from his "communal" life.
And this is where I think you've identified that this is not going to ease up as he ages, but it will become more problematic, right?
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I didn't catch the end of what you were saying, but he's English, I got.
Are you having trouble typing?
Should I type a longer answer that reflects my thoughts on this rather than more of a chat?
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Let me then give you my thoughts on this and I believe they will be helpful to you. And this way you can read without having to type back so often. It will take me a few moments to type, okay?
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