Hello, I am Rafael. Thanks for asking your question - I'm here to support you. (Information posted here is not private or confidential but public).
I am glad to know you had this pleasant experience with this person while travelling and that you have been sharing since then keeping regular communication.
Now could you please clarify your questions? All of them seem to assume you believe the person who would answer then has a way to know about your personal and intimate lives and destiny, but that is not possible. You have posted your question under the Relationship category and most of expert here as mental health professional who could answer your questions as such, some are medical doctors who could help you commenting about medical treatment and some are from other professionals like social work and similar who could comment from case management and related experience, but your questions do not seem to match any of these areas.
I can support you as a relationship expert if that's what you want. Could you please clarify it?
Hello? Could you please reply? I can see you just joined the chat and try to rate but I have just welcome you to the session and you have not replied at all.
Do you want to receive a response in consistency with these basic standards I just explained before, or are you looking for somebody to guess about your future/fortune?