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I fall in love with someone. and unfortunately he has a girlfriend, but I'm not sure they're in good terms or not. the first time when I texts him, h was texts something and I replied with "ok baby" and he didn't like it. he reply me back - Excuse me lol, I'm not your baby, and than said, it's Ok, you can still text me, you meant well. continue..
and than we stop texting with each other for a few month. last 3 month ago, I gift him a mobile phone and we start chatting again on online, but we don't talk often, and when we did, there was always casual talk, like - hey! how are you? how's family etc, nothing serious talk.
but suddenly 2 weeks ago, he texts me - hey how are you, Misses talking to you and thought I'd texts.
and last week I texts him that I miss him terribly and he replied with "Awww Bless". I want to what he actually trying to say me?
I think that if he has a girlfirend this will not go well for you and he texts every now and then asI am sure he does like you but that might not be enough. It seems like when you stop texting then he reaches out....but as you know texting isnt a relationship and he has not made any attempt to seek out more with you.
I understand you feel strongly for him but these situations rarely end well for you being in the position of waiting for hie
hard to turn off your feelings but I believe saving yourself some heart aches is a good goal right now
what does awww bless really mean?
not easy for you but you also deserve more from a person..deserve all of them and not to be someone on the side
you can easily ask him if he is with his girlfriend and then you will know how to proceed best
if he says he does not have one then you can pursue but if he does I dont see a great outcome
the problem is, when we talk, we always do casual talk and there is always short conservation, so it's difficult to ask him something like this. but i'll try to ask him, someday soon :)
that also indicates that it isnt anything more than these short check ins. care for yourself here...that is a good place for your focus..on you and being with someone whom can give you more
so, when I texts him that I misses him, and he texts back with " Awww Bless", I want to know what he actually trying to say me?
that he thinks that it is sweet but more than that I do not know
he doesnt say that to you...he just acknowledges your kindness with kindness
A while ago, he texts me, that he thinks he getting old, and needs to settle down, and tell me to pray for him. and he says, he's luck hasn't been good, he tested every way. than I said, you need to get married. than he said, I will Insha'Allah (God) in 2014
I dont see him reaching out to you...I hear general comments
I wish I could tell you differently but I am not hearing anything from his end that causes me to see a different outcome. If he had an interest he would reach out to you for more and more than texts
than I ask him, do you like someone? and he said "there is someone", I'll see what happens. best person for my parents and myself, that's what the person should be. and than he said, I speak to her, told her about you also, she like sound of your family. and than I ask him, what did you tell her about me? and he replied, good things, how u r.
, there's only good things to say. in the end, he says, who know's what happens, Allah (God) now's best. can you explain me what he trying to say?
I dont hear a man that is pursuing you...I hear a man that is confused. men, when interested go after and seek what they desire.
he does like you and enjoys you but I am not hearing anything that leads me to believe he desires more than what is there currently
so you think he have feelings for me?
I know you desire more and I am sorry that I dont hear more from this. Your choice to wait around and see if he comes around and if you do I just want you to care for yourself while doing so
I think he has feelings of friendship
Velentines day is approaching, do you think, if he don't, I should message him on that day, and if I should, what would be the best message?
If it were me, I would not be reaching out to someone whom has a girlfriend and hasnt reached out to me
how can I ask him, about his girlfriend, please tell me nice way
I might text him and say...I enjoy you but dont want to keep intruding if you have a girlfriend. Please let me know your status.
He met his girl friend before met me. and we're cousins but lived in different area and don't see often each other.
then you know he has a girlfriend.
it can be that simple of a text and then you will know one way or the other.
should I ask him, he have any special plan for valentine's day?
I would only ask about the girlfriend right now
I try to ask him and than let you know, what he said :)
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some of my friends says, he has feelings for you, otherwise he could have replied with simple thanks or Thank you>3. so, I'm really confused.
stay with our plan and then you will have the information.
alright. speak to you later than :)
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