Thank you for your question.
It sounds like he is jealous because he wants your full attention all the time.
I feel like he does not want you to get close to anyone else because he likes spending time with you.
He doesn't want you to for another friendship with someone else and he gets ignored. He knows what you both have is very special and he does not want to lose you. Do I see him as looking at you as more than a friend. It does sound like he is very interested by what he says.
Saying you will always be best mates.
He is letting you know that he wants you in his life forever and nothing will ever come between you and him.
He gets jealous because he can not help how he feels about you. If you are flirting with someone he can not control his emotions, so he reacts by just not talking until you begin to talk too him.
You both have created a strong friendship together and I feel he does not anyone to get in the way of that.
If you are talking with someone else then he feels that is time you and him do not get to spend together. He also might think that you both are developing more than a friendship together as well.
I do think he fancys you and enjoys the connection you have together. I feel like he is comfortable with you and can be himself.
He started staring at you more because he is seeing you in a different way because I feel his feelings are developing for you more.
You work together often and this has created a bond. It is a bond where you both trust each other, you work well together, and you have a lot of fun, and are able to be yourselves.
I think the friendship too him has developed into something more. You asked me if you felt he was being nice. I do think he is being nice because he really has feelings for you.
Just him saying you both will always be best mates is a true sign there is more. He is telling you he wants you in his life forever.
The questions he is asking is him hinting to see if there could be a relationship with you. That is very interesting questions to be asking you. He is mentioning age to see if you are ok with him being 11 years older. he is trying to see if that bothers you and if he has a chance.
The more questions he ask about your past and about you is because he is interested.
He wants to see if he has a chance to form a relationship.
This is what you wrote on the other question: Customer : Hi thanks for answers but he 11 years younger not older n he did say he too immature to go out with older girl in his opinion n said very serious but said IDE have fun but just he is nice guy n don't want to hurt his gf, but he also asking bout another guy at my work as people say he likes me n I do him, as we all going on night out I said I don't fancy him n he goes woukd u sneak off with him to hotel I said no y he goes just thought u would
It sounds too me that he is trying to see if you like the other guy.
He wants to know if you are interested in the other guy and if you would cheat. It sounds like he likes you and wants more information on what your actions would be so he doesn't get embarrassed if he asked you out and he rejected him.
So he is going to start talking about the other guy to see your responses.
He is telling you about his girlfriend because I feel he is very confused about his emotions right now.
I feel he has these strong feelings for you and I think it is playing a part in how he feels about his girlfriend.
This can happen when you begin to create a friendship and a bond with each other. You often go home to the per on you love wondering what it would be like if you were with someone else. These are normal thoughts when you find yourself attracted to someone else. But before people move on from a relationship they have to picture their life without the one they love because they might not every be able to get them back.
Right now he does not know what to do so he is confiding in you to see what your opinion is going to be if you tell him to stay. He could be trying to see how you would react to see if he has a chance with you as well.
It sounds like the girlfriend is jealous of you and must have thought he had feelings for you. He also might have told he that he had feelings for you.
It sounds like she is looking for more in the relationship and he is not willing to commit just yet. It could be many reason and he might be torn on wether he wants to spend his life with her. He sounds very confused about everything when it comes to his girlfriend.
The reason why he says things like best friends is because he is trying to convince himself that is all he feels for you like a sister. But he knows deep down there is something more, but he is trying to think another way.
He has many signs that he has feelings for you, even talking too you about his girlfriend is a sign. That is very common that a person goes to someone they have feelings for and talk about problems with their relationships.
It is very common for men to confide in their love interests.
Men often talk differently to men when they are confiding in a women.
He is pouring out his feelings because he is trying to see how you feel about him being with his girlfriend. You mentioned they did break up before.
It sounds like the relationship is a little rocky right now. I think there is too much pressure for him to move in and it might just end the relationship. Some times people put too much pressure on someone they love thinking that they will do what they want, but it often back fires because people like to not be pressured into doing something they do not want to.
If someone is not ready to move in with someone and they do, they will be unhappy because they were forced. It is best for him to decide what he wants to do.
Love is not about pressuring someone it is just about wanting to spend the rest of your life with them. If you are willing to break up with someone because they will not move in, then you lost them. This is not how you love someone. In order for someone to be happy they need to be able to make up their own mind.
Moving into with someone should come natural.
It should never be forced.
I see signs that he is interested in you because when someone loves someone that is the person they go to when things in their life are wrong and confusing. It is because he trust you and knows you are their for him.
Hello I was just reading your response.
He seems to be still having trouble with his girlfriend. I would like to talk about the person you are currently with and love very much. Some times when relationship progress they get into a routine and things are not as exciting as they use to be. When you first start dating things are exciting new and you are learning about the person. You are trying to impress each other. But then things in life get in the way. Then life becomes routine. It is common to be attracted to someone else and find them desirable. That is a natural instinct. But you also want to think about how you feel about the person you are in love with as well. You want to wake up tomorrow mourning and picture the person you are currently with no longer in your life. This helps in understanding your feelings. I do feel like this person is very interested in you, but is nervous about doing anything.
I think it is because he feels you are with someone and he is not sure how you feel.
That is only to see if you like hm.
I think he was disappointed he was coming.
But I also think he pushes you on him to see what you will say.
I feel like he wants you to himself.
ou both are in relationships so it is hard to really know what each other is feeling.
At the time he pushed you away because he had a girlfriend, but now their is trouble in the relationship.
Things most likely changed.
Some times relationships need to reconnect and one way of doing that is to recreate that first date with each other.
Life has so many responsibilities and those get in the way on focusing on each other.
When you become attracted to someone else it is new exciting and there are so many emotions on how you feel. There is no responsibility because you both see each other at work, it fun and exciting.
When you go home you go howe to a routine. But people can change that by creating that spark again.
Having a romantic dinner together and talking about memories you both shared. You can also pull out old photos of all the memories you both shared.
You want to create the relationship you are in now just like you first started dating.
The guy at work is a challenge too you and he is fun, you both get along really good.
It is very easy to be interested in someone that thinks the world of you and sounds like he is interested as well. I think it is affecting his current relationship because he is torn on his feelings for you.
I am here.
It seems like he was not feelings well and didn't feel like doing much.
I do not think it has anything to do with his feelings for you.
I think he was just in pain and didn't feel up to doing anything.
I think he felt bad. he didn't want to disappoint him if he wanted to go out.
I think she is jealous of you because she knows there is feelings between you to.
His girlfriend might have not wanted him to go with you to have a drink. It sounds like that is where his problem might be in his relationship I think she is jealous and it is causing a problem in the relationship.
I do think he likes you. He is confused as well that is why he is all over the place because his emotions are saying so many things.
She is defiantly jealous of you.
He might have been worried she would check on him.
He is torn on what to do about his feelings.
The married couple comment is interesting.
That is like hinting around that he is interested.
Him staring at you I am sure he is thinking about his feelings for you.
You want things to remain the same, comfortable. You do not want that akward feeling when you both are together.
You want drop hints and just see what happens.
I think he was thinking alot
So he said it was just because he was in pain, so he had no other reason. I think if he was not in pain he would have went.
It is very clear that he does not want to lose you from his life but it seems his girlfriend might have a problem with you contacting him.
It sounds like he is torn on what to do that is why he is always up and down on his emotions.
Men and women can be friends. There are many friendships with men and women. Friendships were two people stay friends and their is no attraction to each other. It is very common for a man and women to be friends. Special childhood friends.
It sounds like he might have a probably with the age difference, but I think he would get past that if he just let his feelings go.
He has feelings for you but is some times backing off out of fear.